Tuesday, June 09, 2009

小聚

终于得以安排时间,让我们三个女人小聚。

平妹放假了,她的大学生涯真的让我们羡慕不已,好悠闲哦!


平妹瘦了好多,但依然美丽青春!全身散发年轻女子的朝气。


公主自然突显公主的格调,呵呵!
我们是在乌节路一家TCC喝茶聊天,蛮喜欢这里的欧式风格。

日前忧心的事儿多了,有些承受不住,几乎想放弃生命中一些重要的部分。公主教我compartment theory。Life is comprised of many compartments. You cant just focus on one thing, when you cant handle it, put it into compartment for a while, and focus on your some other compartments. Sometime later, take it out and relook. Learn to manage different compartments, dont give up other important items in your life just bcoz of one compartment is troubling you. You shouldnt shoulder everything. You need time off. You need a break. You should go for holidays.

Compartment theory. 我很喜欢这个处世哲学。它让我突然明白,我差一点就把自己封闭在自己的困扰中。我在学习如何处理好生活中的不同部分、不同环节。我也因为这些日子里的不少事,更加深刻地感受到背后那强而有力的后盾,最温暖的依靠。

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