Sunday, February 04, 2007

read an article on the New Paper today, abt the 16 years old gal n her 27 years old teacher.

ya, i must admit that i miss cooling tea, like a mum missing her child. cooling tea will be finishing his NS in abt one mth time. He is happier while he joins NS, lots of friends ard him, n he doesnt need to stay at a home that he loves yet hates so much. Dont know how is he now, but he shd be more matured, n i hope he is able to cope wif life well, n much better.

i still remember the nite when he said he had panadols with him. MLi n I realli din noe wat to do, we tried to call those hotline or helpline or whatsoever, but all were engaged... y were all these hotlines engaged in the middle of nite? so many ppl seeking for help? i hav no answer for that.

it was 3 years ago. as a young adult, he must have felt hurt. he was too young to understand whats concerns n whats 1uv. he was looking for what he couldnt get from his mum, from me. he luv his mum, but hates his dad. he wanna more luv from his mum, who was busy to earn a living for him n his brother. i saw his mum cry. i didnt noe how to handle that. his mum invited me for a meal together, i rejected. the line must always be drawn. there r things tt i wont do.

till now, i still worry abt him, as he is forever a kid in my eyes.

for that t3acher tt was featured on newpaper, no matter wat he said, he will be at the losing end. The minute u arranged the gal to go for abortion n kept it from her mum, u were wrong, whether the idea of abortion came from u or e gal. Told the gal to keep that from her mum, thts biggest mistake. parent's role in such situation can nvr be replaced by anyone, not forgetting she was juz 16 or going to 17.

once the r/s turns sour, all sweets gone, n ppl will start questioning u, as u r supposed to be more matured, n u r more educated, n u r the "role model", ppl will demand u to be more professional. u say u 1uv her, the society says tis is forbidden 1uv. ppl think u r not doing ur job professionally. in tis society, be it guys or gals, kids always win.

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

Maybe it's not the kid who will win... I think it's always the media who will win.. It's how they write the paper which influence many.

spArrOw said...

ya, media indeed plays a significant role, but it is always the people who give the media chance to play its role. n tis time, the paper didnt side anyone, it wrote stories of both sides, n let the reader judge...