am i rite or wrong? maybe i am wrong, i am wrong to plan for Inn. Inn cant adapt to the life here.

She is too fragile. brought her to her sch juz now, to submit documents to process her student pass. she lost her birth cert during house moving, the officer wanted her to try to re-apply her birth cert, n get all her academic cert translated into english. they cant read Malay. Not sth difficult, but Inn has the thought of giving up, she commented if it is so troublesome, she doesnt wan to study liao. such comment stun the officer.

b4 we stepped out of the main gate, i found her crying. she said she is alright. but i know she cant adapt to the life here. she cant take bus for more than 30mins, she cant communicate with ppl here, she cant stand all the rules n regulation here. she is juz a simple n pure gal. she cant take the stress.

in heart, i prefer her to stay in msia, thats where she belongs. a place she can relax, n dad n mum is wif her. she will remain simple n pure. i wouldnt wan her to be like me, change to a person i dun wanna to be, forgo lotsa true-self. she shd juz be a kampung gal, happy go lucky, no worries, no stress.

after her treatment n english course completed, will see if she adapt better. if not, i think it is better for her to work in msia. but for her bf, i dunno, they hav to settle between themselves. i hav told inn, since u hav chosen a sporean guy, u hav no choice but to try to adapt to the life here. i definitely dun encourage her to juz marry n move to her in-law place blindly, n without a window period of adapting. that wont be good for her, it may be tougher for her to adapt into a sporean-style family in a sudden...

i think, i shd stop planning for her, she shd learn to decide for herself, to settle down here, or to go back msia to work n for her bf, she has to talk to him. Maybe my way of doing things, kinda speed-up her growing up process, while she actually needs more time. I must hav forgotten, the pace in msia n spore r different.